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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Poor Little Tink Tink, Oscar Pistorius "Blade Runner" Charged with Murder Feb. 2013

Some of you may recall comedian, Katt Williams' stand-up routine called "Poor Little Tink Tink." Williams was poking fun, yet sympathizing for this man because he is an professional amputee Olympic track runner, who is constantly challenged by other racers and scientists who claim he has an "unfair advantage," because of his prosthetic legs. Katt Williams strikes back and poses a question to the audience "How does a man with no legs in a foot race with no "foots," have an unfair advantage?"LOL

He was referencing Oscar Pistorius, otherwise know as the "Blade Runner." He is a South African sprint runner. At the 2011 Championships in Athletics, Pistorius became the first amputee to win a world track metal. At the 2012 Summer Paralympics he won gold metals. Pistorius' legs were amputated when he was a very young child due to deformity, and Pistorius is therefore truly a symbol of bravery and heroism!

Unfortunately, on Feburary 14, 2013 Pistorius was charged with the murder of his girlfriend, model, Reeva Steenkamp. He allegedly shot her early that morning in his home. He was granted bail and must appear in court June 2013.

Sadly, on the day Steenkamp died she was scheduled to give a speech to a Johannesburg school about her fight against abuse towards women. http://www.heavy.com/news/2013/02/reeva-steenkamp-oscar-pistorius-hot-facts/ Check out this website, she was actually a multi-faceted, beautiful, talented woman. She only started dating Pistorius last year. She had even planned a surprise Valentine's Day for Pistorius. 0_0

I am not casting any judgement, as I do not know what happened between the two of them...but on Valentine's Day though, that's just foul. However, speaking of "UN-fair," I do not think it's fair for people to attempt to disqualify him from gold metals because he has specially made prosthetic legs. It's amazing that he can even run with fake legs! One writer for TheDailyBeast.com and a writer for Sports Illustrated, argue that this allegation does not detract from his great successes and triumphs and that as an amputee he without a doubt has gone through many emotional struggles we are unaware of. The DailyBeast writer suggests that "we need to stop with the self-delusion and stop judging gifted athletes,"  as the writer believes that "these men have to be narcissistic, as anybody, in the pursuit of greatness." He suggests that professional athletes and coaches often lack morals. Ok, I can see that argument of lack of morals, but does that justify?

What are your thoughts?

Phyllis Hyman/Mindy McCready, Talented Singers and Suicide

I not too long ago discovered a most fabulous 70s-90s jazz/R&B/pop singer born in Philadelphia and raised in Pittsburgh! Oh yes, she did it all. She is no longer living and unlike the talented black female singers we've heard so much about such as Aretha Franklin, Whitney Houston, and Dionne Warwick, she was in many ways sort of a hidden treasure, which is why TV One's Unsung did a documentary feature on her. And a fun fact, Clyde Davis and Arista records had signed all the above singers, BUT Phyllis Hyman was the first. With all these great female singers now signed to the label, competition became fierce and this often depressed Hyman, making her irritable. She had problems with drug (cocaine) and alcohol use, as well as eating disorders (she would overeat when depressed). She was constantly in and out of rehab and counseling, but those things would only help her for short periods of time.

I stumbled upon her when I was searching one of my favorite old school songs by Bobby Caldwell--"What You Won't Do, Do For Love." Hyman had done a jazzy cover of the song. Her voice was what I like to call a deep, but rich sultry alto voice, but make no mistake that woman could reach soprano, bring it down to tenor, scat, and whistle like no other. She was a dazzling beauty! Check out her 6-part TV One Unsung documentary on Youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jd-tjFDIQrw (I've ordered her biography from my school library--still waiting impatiently for it. lol





Aside from her music, which had so much meaning and feeling, her story captivated me because she committed suicide at such an early age (45) and a week before her birthday. Dorothy Dandridge, star of Carmen Jones and Porgy and Bess, did the exact same thing. The puzzling question here is why do so many rich, beautiful, and genuinely talented people commit suicide? Mindy McCready (37), country singer, famous for her 1996 song Ten Thousand Angels (and I absolutely LOVE that song) recently committed suicide. http://losangeles.cbslocal.com/2013/02/17/troubled-country-crooner-mindy-mccready-reportedly-commits-suicide/

Does the answer lie in loneliness, pressures of the music industry, the annoyance of 24/7 paparazzi, abusive relationships, bipolar or mental disorders (what Phyllis Hyman was diagnosed with), or could it be a compilation of all of these factors? All I know is I am so glad that I discovered her work and her legacy will live on through her timeless music!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

The Vagina Monologues, A Review

I've been meaning to write this review for a long time. I saw the play for the first time, this past Valentine's Day and I was utterly surprised. I went to see it with my boyfriend, and in my mind the title made me feel that it would be an uncomfortable or inappropriate play to watch during Valentine's but I was wrong in that assumption. Now granted, you don't want to go see it with a new beau or a significant other you don't know very well, unless you two are very mature adults, it may cause some discomfort.
(Random story: I'd had an awesome Spanish teacher when I was in high school who told me she would be preforming in this play. She didn't want me to see it because she said it was too explicit for my age, but I think it's fair to believe that being a college student at 20, it was now appropriate for me to see this play, for only $5 :))
It is national tradition for "The Vagina Monologues" to be shown on Valentine's Day, which was a fact I was ignorant of before seeing it and following up with research. In a nutshell, I saw the big themes as being "Progressive," "women-empowering," "women-liberating," and "revealing." The monologues consist of various soapbox stories dealing with every aspect of woman experience, of course surrounding her private parts.
Eve Ensler, the original writer, wrote the monologues based off of 200 previous interviews she'd conducted with with women about their views on "sex, relationships and violence against women." I thought that was a cool thing for her to do, as sex has always been a taboo issue. When the women answered her questions, they brought up many personal anecdotes to help explain themselves, which Ensler was inspired to use to create a compilation of these monologues.
There is one monologue dedicated to a very old woman who said she had never had sexual intercourse before because when she became aroused she would "flood" with a terrible stench and this would embarrass her. I've never heard of that, but Im assuming that it's maybe a rare condition some women may have. Another monologue speaks on a young girl who'd always had bad experiences with her private. As a young girl she was jumping on the bed...had jumped too high and landed between her legs on the bed post...OUCH! As an adolescent someone punched her there and when she was 16 a beautiful, woman she admired in her neighborhood taught her how to please herself. This experience, I assume touches on the issue of same sex relations.
If you are thinking right now, Yasmine what's the matter with you?! Hey, the answer is nothing, I am simply relaying your with facts surrounding the play, but for this reason...the shock value, this play is truly revolutionary.
Another story, my absolute favorite is the one of The Angry Vagina! It speaks of how horrible the doctor visits are...in which you are told to strip naked, put on an itchy piece of thin cloth, told to slide down in the stirrups and are examined with a cold instrument, called a speculum, which the monologue calls "duck lips!" lol This angry monologue also condemns whoever thought of the tampon which the monologue calls "a dry cotton swab, you shove up... :)
There are also a couple of more serious, sad monologues, those of foreign girls in poor countries in places like Russia, where girls are sex trafficked and terribly abused, and those of women in African who are mutilated so there is no longer any feeling. Mutilation often leads to vaginal infections and miscarriages...it is a painful process.
There's another funny one about a married woman who does not like to shave. She has a firm belief that you (as a man) cannot like it, without liking hair! LOL She found her husband cheating on her, and was told that compromise is sometimes necessary for relationships to work. So she agreed and started shaving, but her husband continued to cheat on her. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry at this one!
Overall, I thought the play was great! I'd like to say "It's the play that sheds light on all the things women can't say OUT LOUD!" If you go see this play, there are two things you must do...1) You must be honest with yourself about all good and bad sexual experiences you've had in the past and 2) you MUST be open minded to the perpectives of other women, even if you don't necessarily agree with them. If you do these two things, there should definitely be times when you are laughing your guts out and maybe a time or two when you are crying. It's a liberating, emotional roller coaster! This goes for men as well...I think it will open their eyes (probably more than they want them to be opened lol) to women's perpectives on sex.

Review by Yasmine Arrington

The Triangle Fire of 1911, Transformed American Safety Laws and Politics

Have you heard about the terrible tragic Triangle Fire that took place in the wonderful, modern industrialized metropolis of New York on March 25, 1911? Well, it's reality for the city's poor, immigrant workers wasn't the glamorized city we know it to be today. The Triangle Waist Company was a clothing sweatshop, popular for making skirts (then called waist shirts) and Gibson Girl style blouses.

It was almost closing time and a fire broke out (it was originally thought to be like any other small, extinguishable fire they'd had several times before)...women piled on top of each other at the steel doors trying to escape, but the doors were locked. The fire escapes did not even reach down to the street of the building and many women who realized that they were trapped in the building jumped some 20 feet to their deaths. The fire department's ladders could not even reach the 8th floor where the fire broke out and their safety nets were not strong enough to catch the jumpers.

It was a horrific sight to see, lasting less than half an hour. People lined up on all sides of the building watching the horror scene. Former reporter (who witnessed the tragedy), William Gunn Shepherd wrote, "I learned a new sound more horrible than description can picture. It was the thud of a speeding, living body on a stone sidewalk."

146 young women and men died. Most of those who died were in their teens and early 20s. A documentary reported that 11 engagement rings were found in the ashes after the fire. Unfortunately, deaths in factories were quite common in the years surrounding 1911.

Many dangerous situations that were happening abroad in the 20th century, along with the word of America being the "Land of Opportunity," brought an enormous surge of millions of immigrants into the U.S., most of them passing through New York's Ellis Island. For example, many Russian Jews fled Poland as Czar Alexander II was assassinated (1881) which led to ruthless attacks--Russians burning down Jewish homes, murdering them, and looting their businesses. Many Italians were fleeing environmental disasters, such as massive soil erosions and the eruption of Volcano Vesuvius in 1906.

The young women in particular came to the U.S. with expectations, that they would have better opportunities to work, provide for their families, and be treated respectfully but all they were greeted with was poor living conditions in one room tenements, overcrowding in the Lower East Side, working 70 or more hours a week, for extremely low wages.

Young immigrant woman who began to protest these terrible working conditions, helped provide fuel for the Socialist movement, followed by the Progressive Movement, from under which emerged Franklin D. Roosevelt's, The New Deal. These women had expectations of America that were far from being met. Tammany, the corrupt political machine at the time, did nothing to alleviate the worker's needs, and would send out hit-men on protest leaders such as Clara Lemlich.

The Triangle Co. owners, Blanck and Harris were charged with 146 deaths, but were dismissed of all charges (because they had broke no law) and in addition received about $60,000 in insurance money for the burned down building, which in today's terms equals a couple million dollars, an amount far exceeding the total of their loses. The fire departments, Tammany, the Triangle Waist Co., and others all sifted the blame. No one wanted to take responsibility, but Socialist women such as Frances Perkins, who would later become America's first woman cabinet Secretary and the Tammany Twins (Al Smith and Robert Wagner) worked hard to pass safety laws and create the Factory Investigating Commission (FIC).

David Von Drehle's book, "Triangle: The Fire that Changed America," includes the first official complete list of the Triangle Fire victims that has ever been complied, including the names of the 6 or 7 who had been unidentified for years.

The horror of that day, and the aftermath that followed, made the masses say enough! So now every time I do a fire drill, or see a fire escape, or the sign that says "Use stairs instead of elevators incase of a fire," I will remember and solute those who died in the Triangle Fire of 1911, and those who fought to put these safety precautions in place.

[Unfortunately in many places in the world and even in the U.S. we still hear of these terrible factory tragedies due to poor working conditions and locked doors.] In 1991 in Hamlet, N.C. 25 workers died at a poultry plant in a flash fire behind locked doors. In 1993, a fire in a toy factory in Bangkok left 200 dead, again where doors were locked. And most recently in 2012 a garment factory caught fire in Bangladesh that killed 112 workers.

"These are hard questions, but if we set ourselves out to solve them, the people who perished yesterday will become, even against their will heroes. By their deaths they will begin to set us free."--Rev. Dr. Charles L. Slattery

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